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How is Stress Affecting your Quality of Life?

Stress is a recognized cause of 80% of today’s illnesses – so what are you doing to mitigate the risk of chronic stress in your life?

If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your own estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment. Marcus Aurelius

The choices we make, how we define success and how we relate to stressful situations affect our physical and mental health, our performance and our personal satisfaction.

Stress Response

We each have a particular carrying capacity – or load we can bear without straining our reserves. That carrying capacity is affected by a complex set of factors and conditions that change over the course of our lives, increasing or decreasing our risk. When our carrying capacity is exceeded, our body’s physical and mental alarm bells go off.

Life and workplace stressors affect different people in different ways.

In a 2004 study on psychological stress and human immune function, Psychologists Suzanne Segerstrom, Ph.D., and Gregory Miller, Ph.D. found that:

  • Short-term stressors boost the immune system, and

  • Chronic, long-term stress suppresses the immune system.

So, What is stress?

Our experience of our body’s fight or flight response to stimuli whether internal (feelings, perceptions, beliefs) or external (temperature, sound, aggression)is how we understand stress.

Primary stress mobilizes the body’s energies and you experience an instantaneous surge in:

  1. Heart rate

  2. Blood pressure

  3. Sweating

  4. Breathing,

  5. Metabolism and a tensing of muscles.

Secondary stress can be experienced as good and is often experienced in response to a situation you’ve chosen like a performance, sales presentation, wedding or an important job interview. While healthy and producing some anxiety, good stress can:

  • energize
  • motivate
  • invigorate and
  • challenge us

If bad stressors persist over time your body will release and consume sugars and fats, negatively affecting your immune system which can compromise your physical and mental well-being.

Psychologically, you may experience:

  1. Anxiety
  2. Irritability
  3. Frustration
  4. Anger
  5. Depression
  6. Feelings of powerlessness and lack of control
  7. A sense of being driven and pressured
  8. Depletion and exhaustion.

Physical symptoms may include:

  1. Headaches (tension and migraines)
  2. Eating disorders and digestive problems including over and under eating, diarrhea and constipation
  3. Sleep disturbances
  4. Mild fatigue
  5. Skin rashes
  6. Teeth grinding
  7. Muscular tics, aches and pains
  8. Chronic mild illnesses
  9. Sexual dysfunction


Stress and Gender

Research on women’s responses to stressors suggests that women experience a wider range of life events (e.g., those happening to friends) as stressful as compared with men who react to a more limited range of stressful events, specifically those affecting themselves or close family members.

Studies show that women tend to react more to chronic life stressors like:

  • Time constraints

  • Meeting others’ expectations

  • Marital relationships

  • Children and family health

while men are more affected by work-related stressors like

  • Change of job

  • Demotion

  • Pay cut

  • Financial difficulties

Highly-stressed men are twice as likely to suffer symptoms as men who are not while stressed out women, are five times as likely.


Chronic Stress Costs Everyone

If stressors persist and situational demands continue to exceed available capacity and energy supply, chronic stress will lead to burnout. In this state of mental and emotional depletion, the body is prone to develop serious physical and mental health conditions that compromise the immune system further, compound effects of arthritis and make pain worse.

One study with 10,000 participants over the course of 14 years found that increased work stress was linked to higher chances of developing symptoms of poor metabolic health including:

  • Obesity

  • High blood pressure

  • High cholesterol – leading to heart disease or type 2 diabetes.

Employee stress and difficulties in balancing work, health and family, costs Canada $2.7 billion annually. Source: Conference Board of Canada.

The Life-Work Balance Challenge
a Call to Action

The facts on life-work balance clarifies the challenge:

  1. Over the past decade, the average work week increased from 42 to 45 hours per week

  2. 40% employees work more than 50 hours per week, compared to 25% in 1990

  3. Canadians spend only about 17 hours a week in non-work-related activities

  4. 52% employees take work home with them, up from 31% in 1990

  5. 18% of employees now take unpaid “catch-up” work home with them

  6. 59% of employees check their voicemail after hours, 30% accept work-related faxes at home, and 29% keep their cellphones on.

  7. 81% of white-collar employees accept business calls after hours; 65% check their email from home. 46% consider this work-related contact to be an intrusion on their lives.

  8. 44% of Canadians working for large companies report negative spillover from work to family.

  9. An estimated 28% of working Canadians feel that family and friends resent the number of hours they spend working.

Source: Warren Sheppell

Employees with families, surveyed in a 2003 US study, report significantly higher levels of interference between their jobs and their family lives than employees, with men and women spending much less time on themselves, than 25 years ago. Ironically, the study revealed that those experiencing the greatest work spillover into their private lives rely most heavily on communications technology to help them keep in touch with friends and family.

Finding the right approach to achieve life-work balance can result in higher levels of motivation, energy and performance according to Perspectives on People, a recent report by Towers Perrin.


Change starts with Choice

Clearly, people need help with drawing boundaries, setting terms and conditions and defining who they are, not by their workload but by discovering their purpose and aligning their actions with their values.

Capacity to innovate is a function of effective thinking, compromised by chronic job stress. A stressful situation may be just the opportunity you need to:

Stopping and deciding to take charge of your life is the first step. Assess your life satisfaction.

Transform Stress into Creative New Opportunities

Stress has multiple contributing causes, and so must have multiple solutions. Understanding how to balance the demands of your life, no matter how many diverse roles you play or how well you play them, becomes critical to managing your responsibilities and achieving sustainable success.

How we look at the events in our lives, the attitude we bring to the situation shapes our perception and our experience. Our self esteem, self confidence, personal resilience, emotional intelligence and social support systems help us develop our coping mechanisms. The good news is that these fluid factors can be developed throughout our entire lives, so there’s always hope and we’re here to help.

Our coaching programs help you manage your stress. We’ll help you:

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Based in Toronto, Canada, KAIZEN Lifestyle Management works with executives, project managers, entrepreneurs, independent professionals, business owners, artists and other creative individuals who are compelled to contribute toward developing a more sustainable world without forsaking themselves in the process.

To learn more about how you can benefit from coaching programs and wellness services please contact us at 416 686 6463 for a offer a free no obligation consultation or Contact Us online.

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